He says that he never had sex with men, even then. He has had highly active sex life and attended sex parties in San Fran. He says it's just for fun, that he has never slept with a guy and that he never will. I found his Skype accounts where in one of them he pretends to be a girl, and in another he is himself. I tried to talk to him a few times but he always says that it is just not true. Zeynep I also suspect that my boyfriend is gay.That's not a healthy way to look at a relationship! He refused to give me a reason as to why he was texting men.said that everyone has secrets & I didn't need to know all of his. Krystal One more thing: I tried having a caring, patient conversation w/my boyfriend & it was just his constant denial of being gay or bi.Jalen definitely guilty of some of these.This may just be me but I feel that, although understandable how you came to this conclusion, it may be slightly in-accurate! That might just be me though, a really interesting article otherwise(liking the text bubbles) Oscar Just reading this(as a man) and I seemed to apply to almost all of these! It is important to mention that I am not gay, I was born a man and am a straight male.